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Which Is Better For You, Soft or Full Swinging?

If you are inexperienced with swinging it's possible you'll not be knowledgeable about some of the different terms you will come across, for instance Soft Swinging or Hard Swinging (often known as Full Swap). Allow me to help fill you in on what the distinction is so you'll not be caught off guard.

Soft Swinging

Generally swingers start out here, and at lot stay with this type of swinging. You can find other definitions on the net but the generally accepted definition is that Soft swinging mainly means that anything goes excluding penetration with the other partner. Penetration is saved for your own partner.

So what pleasure will you have without penetration?... Lots!

It is generally an extended foreplay session (Ted and I call it 4-way Foreplay -- excluding the male halves playing with each other) with lots of kissing, caressing, and a ton of oral sex. Playing with Sex Toys can also be acceptable, including penetration with sex toys. The only thing will not occur is for one partner to penetrate the other partner.

Many people also call completely remaining with your own partner Soft Swinging, but that is actually a style of Couples Voyeurism, usually described in Swingers Profiles as "we like to watch and be watched".

One more incorrect use of the term Soft Swinging is when it is referred to couples where the females play exclusively or with very limited amount of interaction. That is commonly referred to as "Ladies Only Play".

We actually met a full swap couple that was unsure of what exactly they could do with a couple who only soft swaps, so we needed to explain in detail. Now this exact couple was contemplating about quitting the lifestyle as it just appeared to not have the desired effect on them, that is until they found out just how much fun soft swinging could be.

Hard Swinging or Full Swap

Just as the name suggests this kind of swinging includes full swap or intercourse with the other partner. Some people never even get this far for reasons of their own (like diseases or intimacy concerns) but many enjoy full swap quite a bit.

I would not be me if I did not remind you now that you should by no means have intercourse with another person and not use a condom, but I am positive you are smart enough to already know that. It is just not worth the gamble.

Both these forms of swinging are generally enjoyed in the same room (in order that both couples are together) but they can also be done in separate rooms. Even while enjoying the experience of a threesome you'll need to choose whether you want to soft swing or hard swing. Each person MUST be in agreement as well.

Moreover do yourself a favor and talk about this before ending up in the bedroom (or which ever room you are going to get busy in). There is nothing more upsetting than finding out that the person you are with, and trying to get a condom on him, is not going to have actual intercourse with you. This discussion is a whole lot easier to have in non sexual surroundings.

Now that you know which type of swinging you want to try, go out and enjoy yourself; just ensure both you and your partner are on the same wavelength prior to picking up a cute couple.

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Do the Vietnam Veterans know they lost the Vietnam war?

The French colonized Vietnam until the 50s when North Vietnamese communist factions succeeded in driving them out. The USA fully engaged with the Cold War between itself and the Soviet Union quickly involved itself in the region to ensure that the balance of power in that region did not tip towards the Soviets. It put its support behind the South Vietnamese who were opposed to the North.

What the US failed to recognize, was that the Viet Cong were never interested in the broader interests served by the Cold War. Their one aim was to gain self determination. Having been colonized by the French, they fought bitterly against the US, who they saw to be next in line as an imperial conqueror.

They fought much harder than anyone in US intelligence could have predicted and the "soft" Americans unaccustomed to the jungle surroundings found themselves at a disadvantage. This ultimately led to the first American defeat in warfare. Something from which the US has never truly recovered.

K-9, me again and you're beginning to fuck me off. Let's cut the bullshit, throw out the asshole historical data that gets put on the news and in the history books and look at bare facts! Myth: The United States lost the war. Fact: The American military was not defeated in Viet-Nam. They lost no battles of any consequence and from a military standpoint it was almost an unprecedented performance by American armed forces. The last American troops, excluding embassy personnel left Viet-Nam ENTIRELY, 29 March 1973. The fall of Saigon occurred 30 April 1975, two years AFTER the US left Vietnam. Concerning the evacuation on that day out of 140,000 people very few were US military personnel and those again were assigned to the US embassy there.America did not lose the war... South Vietnam DID! Giap, who many have said was in the same league as MacArthur, Grant, Lee, etc. was defeated at every turn in major engagements with the US troops, especially with TET of 1968, which resulted in the death of 45,000+ NVA troops and slamming the Viet Cong so hard in South Vietnam that that insurgency group never did come close to the recovery of their former strength. Myth: Fighting in Viet-Nam was not as intense as in previous wars. FACT: The average infantryman in the South Pacific during WW2 saw about 40 days of combat in four years. The average infantryman in Viet-Nam saw about 240 days of combat in ONE YEAR thanks to the airmobile factor! Myth: The common belief that the "Domino Theory" was proven false. Fact: ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian Nations); the Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia,Singapore, and Thailand stayed free because of the USA's and its allies commitment to Vietnam. The Indonesians threw the Soviets out in 1966. Without that commitment, communism could have swept all the way to the Malacca Straits which is of GREAT strategic importance to the free world. If you ask people in these nations whose age group remembers those days, you might find out that they have a different opinion of who won and lost in Southeast Asia. Viet-Nam was definitely the turning point for Communism. Myth: Most Vietnam veterans were draftees. Fact: 66% of the men who served in RVN were volunteers. 66% of the men who served in WW2 were draftees. 70% of those 66% who were killed in Viet-Nam were volunteers. Myth: Most Vietnam vets were poor and uneducated ( I think you call them dummies) Fact: Vietnam veterans were the best educated people that this country had ever sent into combat. 79% had a high school education or better.( Anyone who has to make life and death decisions in a micro-second day by day ,far outweighs and outstands any college PH-D any day in my book and has received more of a education than any educated dummy that has a degree will ever get). No, The United States, it's military policies, and military personnel DID NOT LOSE THE VIETNAM WAR. SOUTH VIETNAM DID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You, and the idiots like you, who don't know that they don't know, at least get some documented facts before you open your mouth and confuse it with your asshole!

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